Fifty Shades Of Grey: BDSM Lifestyle

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Did you happen to pick up a certain hot and steamy book this summer that has ladies all over the world looking at grey neck ties in a different light? What is 50 shades of grey about?

The Fifty Shades of Grey novels seem to have sparked a bit of a kinky streak in many lovers around the globe who are now trying to get their partners to try something new. So, how exactly do you go about getting your partner to try out your new BDSM desires?

Well, we can safely tell you that strolling into your bedroom in a leather cat suit and a bull whip isn’t the most effective way to get the ball rolling. Communication is the key when it comes to exploring a fetish for the first time – especially one as taboo as BDSM has been in the past. In fact, it’s probably easier to incorporate aspects of your existing sex life into your new found desires. Have you already done role play in the bedroom where someone is being ‘punished’? Throw in some light spanking into the mix. Does your man like to be on top while making love? Ask him to hold your wrists down next time he’s above you. Already used sex toys? Add on a few sensory deprivation tools like a blindfold. All of these methods are small steps you can take that may lead to more intense action.

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Once you’ve already dipped your toe into these waters, get the conversation going. Let your lover know what you liked about those new features you’ve added to your sex sessions, and see if they’d be willing to take it to the next step. Instead of a bare handed spank for the “naughty schoolgirl”, add on a beginner’s spanking paddle. Use soft ties to bind your wrists to the bed rather than having your lover hold you down. Add a mouth gag or ear covers to the eye mask for a new style of sensory deprivation.

For many, though, getting your partner to try out BDSM isn’t always about the pain. For some, it’s just an exchange of power where you want your lover to take the reins and lead the way. It’s not about whips and chains, but letting your partner take control of the situation. The best way to establish what you are looking to get out of BDSM is to have open and honest communication with your lover about your fantasies.

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So, are you ready to bring some BDSM toys into the bedroom to try out with your partner? Head on over to AdamAndEve.com where you can pick up the Official Fifty Shades Sex Toy Collection – the perfect set of toys and BDSM sex tools for those who are looking into this BDSM lifestyle the first time. Using the coupon code SHADES, you’ll not only get FREE Shipping with your order, you’ll also get a 50% OFF on almost ANY Sex Toy Inspired by Erotic Novels, 3 FREE Bonus DVDs and a Mystery Gift. Get ready to explore your kinky side with discounts from AdamAndEve.com!

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