Fifty Shades BDSM Sex: Introducing Your Partner To Your BDSM Desires

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Fifty Shades has two tips on how to get your partner to try out your BDSM desires…

You may want to stroll into your bedroom in a leather cat suit and a bull whip to get your partner in the mood for some BDSM fun, but we’re sorry to bust that idea. Walking in that cat suit with a whip between your lips isn’t actually the most effective way to get the ball rolling.

So what then can heat up things for BDSM sex?

One, communication is vital when it comes to exploring a fetish for the first time – especially one as taboo as BDSM.  Once you talk things out in the open, you’ll find it easier then to incorporate your new sexual desires into your already existing sex life.  For instance, if you already role play while having sex, you can throw in some light spanking into the mix. If your man’s always on top while making love, ask him to hold your wrists down next time he’s above you.  And if you do already use sex toys, enhance your enjoyment by adding on a few sensory deprivation tools like a blindfold. All of these methods are small steps that may lead you and your partner to more intense action and greater performance.

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Two, don’t stick to your usual new routine. Once you’ve already dipped your toe into these waters, get things going. Let your lover know what you like about your new sex strategies and see if your partner’s willing to take things to the next level. If for instance you got into the naughty school girl routine instead of just the regular missionary sex, use a BDSM beginner spanking paddle for “spanking”. Don’t get us wrong, the touch of the hand spanking the buttocks can be erotic, but a paddle will spice things up and get you to a better climax. Use soft ties to bind your wrists to the bed too rather than simply asking your lover to hold you down. Add a mouth gag or ear covers to the eye mask for a new style of sensory deprivation sex.

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Trying out BDSM sex is not always about getting orgasms after pain infliction. For some, the pain isn’t even necessary. What is emphasized in BDSM is the exchange of power between the lovers or sexual partners.  It’s not about whips and chains, but letting the partner take control of the situation by taking the reins and leading the way to a more fulfilling sex. And the best way to make these things happen in your sex life is to be open and honest with your lover about your sexual fantasies.

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